Coping Mechanisms

A pilot study of 10 women with post breast cancer lymphedema reported concern over the betrayal of their body, abandonment of medicine (unsympathetic doctors, limited knowledge or conflicting information provided), concealing an imperfect body image through inadequate clothing or elastic sleeves, and managing the interruption of a normal flow of life.

-Living with Lymphedema

A lot of us can relate to the above quote perhaps a little more than we would like to. Having lymphedema can be so disruptive to your life that sometimes you can’t help but get bogged down by it. That’s the nature of a chronic condition – some days you have it under control, and other days you’re completely overwhelmed.

When you’re feeling down, it’s easy to engage in harmful or negative coping mechanisms, such as denial or substance abuse. It feels much easier to not deal with the issue rather than to confront it, let alone acknowledge that it exists. These routes are unhealthy and can potentially harm you in the long run – something I’m sure I don’t need to tell you!

So how do you cope? Click “more” to continue reading..

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In a “mood”

Hello, lymphies..

I’m in what I like to call “a mood” tonight, where I feel particularly down-and-out. I’ve been feeling a little depressed these couple days, and to top it all off, I started to look through pictures of people affected by lymphedema and it just got me even more upset. I worry that I don’t do enough to manage mine, and that it will get worse over the years. I’m scared by the hopelessness of it, and the permanence. I’m scared of the future with this condition.

What do you do when you’re feeling particularly low about your condition? How can I cheer up? :(

I found this picture on the internet, and it makes me feel a little better. It’s a nice little mantra to repeat to yourself during particularly tough times, and one that I’m going to try to live & learn:

Be well, and good night <3